Newly Divorced need advice?

Just think of this marriage as practice for when the real thing comes along. I noticed that when I started dating and would break up with someone that I would come away from the relationship with more knowledge about myself and what I didn't want. Not so much what I did want. As time progressed and I went through more dates and relationships I found out what I wanted because I knew what I didn't want. Hope the makes sense. Keep on looking.